so lonely

This is so right…
I quote “Loneliness is like a disease -- and what's worse, it's contagious. Although it may sound counter-intuitive, loneliness can spread from one person to another, according to research being released Tuesday that underscores the power of one person's emotions to affect friends, family and neighbours.” (link to full article)
Lonely people spread loneliness the same way that depressed people spread depression. While in an altruistic world, one would not shun such people but try actively to bring them out to the normal world and make them the see the ‘beauty of life’. But this shit works only if the feeling is not in tune with their essential character. If you recognise this as an essential character of the person in question – my advice to you would be – RUN. FAST.
There are so many negative characters you meet, characters who are cynical, depressed, forever getting bugged and irritated. If you stay with them you will slowly mimic them. Any mood is contagious. You can try passing on your ‘positivity’ (whatever) to them but the risk is just not worth it.
In office there are constant naysayers, constant argumentative nuts, constant idiots who just don’t see the point and according to Devdutt, the bums who fight on both sides (link here) – the proverbial ‘devil’s advocate’.
Whenever someone really gets to me by constant bitching, complaining, arguing, I just refuse to fight. Either I run or I stop the argument. One interesting way to make a bitcher run away from you is to praise exactly what they are bitching. If that’s too difficult this trick never fails – take a reverse perspective of the same and ask him to consider the other side. See him run like a black buck with Salman Khan on his tail. (wasn’t that a sad metaphor. But I couldn’t help it)


a few videos...


a political one...



and finally the one I wanted to show...